It sounds like maybe you were hoping he would come to his senses if you left, and maybe now you feel disappointed. Well hey it's alright. Look anyone who destroys your property even your phone is clearly off their rocker with anger, impulse and violence problems. It is definitely for the best that you move on. Time to take your stuff after he drops it off and start a new life. Good luck to you and congratulations for being brave enough to leave. Many people are not and suffer many terrible years.