I keep getting told to add things, especially people. The problem is, I can start out meeting someone like a normal person, light and airy and fun. I've tried. It didn't work. I think it's time to start cutting things again. If I'm doing nothing, then I can try to keep my balance. I have a wafer thin allowance of dealing with other people's stuff. I just have no space left to deal. It makes me a horrible person though. I have a sort of friend, a step up from an acquaintance, who has a terrible anniversary today. Well, terrible to him, most people it wouldn't even register for. I tried to talk to him about it, tried to say the right thing, but everything I said was the wrong thing, and he gave up on me. I hope he found someone better to talk to.