An older T would be more experienced, but there are people who are in the business for decades and just suck. And ones who just come in and are great. If she is really good, go back for a few more consultations.

Weigh the pros and cons. She sounds really good, and empathic, and maybe the businesslike way you treat her will help you avoid transference with her. But, maybe she is too young and you can't open up with her. Do you actually know how old she is? Also, age doesn't always mean maturity. Do you mean mother issues as your own mom or being a mom? She may have issues it's her mom, but if she is young, she may not have dealt with it yet.

Overall, go see her a few more times before giving her up.

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