Anyone have advice for coping with my fiance's weird behaviors? He has to have everything organized a certain way or he gets really angry. We just moved in together, and
I moved a shower caddy he had hung yesterday. He went crazy saying he had measured to get it perfect, so now he was throwing it away because I touched it. He has taken 100 times longer to move me than needed because he has to make an ordeal out of every little thing. We hired a young man to help move heavy things. They could have moved the furniture in one day, but it took many many hours (me paying the kid hourly) as my boyfriend is so controlling. He can't hold a real job, because he takes hours just to set up something and never gets around to the real work. He somewhat sees he has a problem but doesnt really know the extent, and how much it makes him unable to function and it makes him socially isolated. He is nice looking so that has helped him get by with a lot. Much of the time he is affectionate, loving, and fun to be around for me, but then the slightest thing can suddenly send him into a rage. Then after he blows up he apologizes shortly thereafter, and returns to being nice. If I confront him when he is raging it only makes him worse. If I just act like everything is okay my life runs smoother until I accidentally do something to disrupt his order of things. Has anyone else been through this?