Let him get to know u before you go flashing all the labels in his face... shouldnt matter when he finds out. But if it comes up dont hide it, if you have a close conversation about those topics dont glaze over it either. If it doesnt come up it doesnt, but if you are serious he has to know.

At the end of the day people dont look at this stuff like Hypetension, so be real with it too.

If it never comes up, just make gd sure it does before you say "I DO". Lol