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Originally Posted by msxyz
I find that really off putting, like he's putting it on you to not make life too difficult for him. He should be the one to manage things, not you. He should be the one to tell you when enough is enough, not leave you to figure it out.
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I don't think it is about making his life easier. I guess I am the one who expressed concern that I've been dependent on having T1 in my life and now that he is in his 70s I am worried about the day that is coming when he dies or gets too ill to practice. T2 I think is trying to force me to find multiple avenues of support (I tend to focus on T support because it is the most satisfying.)
So I do get that this is his way of helping
It would be easier if he was so awful that I could just quit, but he has been pretty good to me overall. Just a little harsh in the boundary dept.