umm.. i am not self loathing.. and i have never felt that i did not deserve things. ...

if negative vibes from me is my son's excuse for his ways.. i guess that is his choice... all i can say people need to learn "self control"...if it makes them feel good to run some one over, seems to me, they have low self esteeme.. Folks that are secure in who they are do not need to be abusive or hurtful to others... I guess each to their own... I would never and I have never treated anyone in any abusive manner. guess that is just me..shrugs shoulders