Awwww, Miss Laura... Whatcha doin'? (Imagine me now as a dog, head tilted to one side inquisitively. Where's THAT emoticon when you need it? )
I want to see you well, you know, you're such a sweetie.
I won't say one way or the other, but...it would be good to reflect on how that's gone in the past for you..
I think CopperStar's onto something -- sometimes it's more motivating to do something for others than it is for ourselves. That can be a good thing or a bad thing, but it's at least solidly worthy of considering.