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Originally Posted by Shadix
I am not looking for love I am looking for attraction and quality dating opportunities. As a guy who is out of college and works in IT with mostly men, that will be impossible to find without being able to attract women I meet in public places, which is mainly about looks. For example I want to be able to get the 20 year old cutie at the gym to be interested in me. Why would she choose a 27 year old ugly loser when she probably meets tons of cute young guys in college?
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Perhaps because you aren't looking for love you aren't attracting any women whatsoever regardless of their age. They maybe sense it.
Sure you might find some who would be in for casual dating at the moment or what not, but that's unusual. Women look for love at any age ( and so do most men). Just because she is young it doesn't mean she doesn't want to be in love with the guy ( regardless of his looks)
At 20 they might not want to run get married right away but they sure aren't interested to "build your dating experience" . That's looking at women as objects
Where you get your ideas about women from?
Your difficulty with meeting women has nothing to do with your looks, certainly not moles!!!!. It has everything to do with lack of social skills, trouble communicating with others, and not understanding how the world works. That's something to work on, not the looks
I am very patient with you a thread after thread because I know you truly struggle but please please see a therapist and if you already do please share what you posting on here and ask for help
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