that is true terri. when mine would stop for the 2 or 3 months I always knew the shoe would fall again and it never failed. It did happen. the sad part is he was my best friend as well. we were so so close it wasn't funny. we were perfect together til he started the drinking and prescription drugs. it was so sad to see the kind of person he was to what he became. he died in 2002 and I still miss him. I remarried now and have a wonderful husband.