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Originally Posted by A Red Panda
So... you're 36 and have had 20 relationships? That's plenty. You're not lacking in relationships at all.
And guess what? Out of all of the relationships I've been in where I was broken up with? Never, not once, have I been given a reason. Most people who break up with someone are too cowardly to actually respect the person who trusted them.
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I had to go and reread the post. I saw 6 but not the 29. 6 serious, but involved with TWENTY! at 36. I always thought I had way too many men, embarrassingly too many, not everyone was a serious relationship but still). But 20 by the age of 36!!!! Wow! The guy is popular!!!
Where would one even find that many partners???!
Frankly sometimes it is impossible to give a reason if it is short term dating. Like you don't love the person. You aren't feeling it. They are annoying the heck out of you. How do you say that?
With one exception I left every relationship myself ( not because I am a beyotch but because they are always so unavailable that and un reliable nothing bothered them in relationship) I always told them the reason. Well it was always pretty much the same.
I was dumped once, we only dated few months, he met someone else, she was 20 years older than him lol they didn't stay together for too long, she dumped him lol
Sometimes if it was short relationship id rather not know the reason. If you two were commited and or lived together or it was long terms then of course explanation is needed.
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