I hear you. I do attract same people as my parents. Especially men ( but on occasion women too) They are much with it on the surface , very successful and they are there for others in terms of if I am sick they will come to the rescue but they are not there emotionally speaking, they aren't emotionally available. Yes my t says we attract people who make us feel very familiar because that's all we know. The only way out of it to be very aware. And pay attention

Right now I have this acquaintance, not really a friend, we see each other infrequently. Maybe every few months. She contacted me "lets get together", in the past few weeks she cancelled 3 times. Always last minute. I do work two jobs so I am extremely busy but don't have kids at home as mine is grown and married, don't have man at home. And my mom is doing better ( in chemo now) so I don't need to run there every minute. So I am kind of flexible. She is married and has 3 kids and 3 step kids.

Most certainly i am more than willing to accommodate her. She is the one who contacts me first and selects days and times and then she is the one who always cancels last minute!!!!

She is not the close friend do it doesn't bother me but the heck what's up with this?

By the way both my dad and my sister in law have vertigo. Not a laughing matter. My sister in law was in the hospital for it last Christmas because she couldn't even sit down let alone walk

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