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Originally Posted by divine1966
Perhaps because you aren't looking for love you aren't attracting any women whatsoever regardless of their age. They maybe sense it.
Sure you might find some who would be in for casual dating at the moment or what not, but that's unusual. Women look for love at any age ( and so do most men). Just because she is young it doesn't mean she doesn't want to be in love with the guy ( regardless of his looks)
At 20 they might not want to run get married right away but they sure aren't interested to "build your dating experience" . That's looking at women as objects
Where you get your ideas about women from?
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Well, it's not that I don't want to find love at all, I probably do. But I also want to have dating options. Love comes later anyways, and most young people date because they are infatuated with the person or "have a crush" on them. Usually they won't end up in a long term relationship with the person, but it is still a fulfilling experience because as humans we naturally desire the companionship of people we are attracted to, even if it is just short term. I think casual dating is a pretty important part of life, so I don't want to miss out on it. My therapist seems to agree, because she says the best thing for us to do first is to get me to date a girl. This is regardless of whether or not I am ready for a long term committment.
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Originally Posted by divine1966
Your difficulty with meeting women has nothing to do with your looks, certainly not moles!!!!. It has everything to do with lack of social skills, trouble communicating with others, and not understanding how the world works. That's something to work on, not the looks
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I have difficulty meeting women because I am not part of any social circles which would give me that oppprtunity. It is nearly impossible to attract a girl you don't know on a personal level unless she is physically attracted to you. And being physically attractive is not very easy for a guy. I do think that minor imperfections like moles can break it. For example why would a random 20 year old girl at the gym be interested me if I am not physically attractive and too shy to say anything clever?