Hey!

I used to ask myself similar questions, what is real and what isn't. Even the same earthly event is interpreted differently by different people, so in my humble opinion, there really isn't an objective shared reality. There are however some measures of it; to define the nature of material, visible objects, we use physical instruments etc.

I believe everything I experience is just as real as anything else, but I understand others do not experience some of the things I do, so I adapt to this fact and try not to stand out (somewhat).

Lately I have been practicing communicating within dreams - asking questions I need answered, going through possibilities, learning some facts.. Now that you remind me, some of the scenery I went through gave the impression of the future - could be. I have also used dreams to communicate to a family member who passed away, again, it did not seem like a distorted memory, but indeed a constructive conversation.

I think my and yours experience is similar in some points and I am definitely interested in knowing more about your post-singularity experience. Do you have any idea when the singularity happened and what is the future you're perceiving like? Also, did your family members grow older or are they your future kids?