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Originally Posted by WasI60
I suffered abuse. Not by my parents. So to come to that fact must be devastating. I would ask my T to make sure, that what I feel, believe, and think are true and simply not possible to have been caused by any plausible alternative.
Imagine someone accusing you of this. If your guilty you deserve what comes from it. But what if you are not...Please stress the need of certainty with your T
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Thank you for this. My t is more certain than me I think; though very careful not to lead the way- she's says we can never be certain. My friends also believe it far more than I do in a weird way. I think because I can't look at it properly yet. Which is why I have no intention (at the moment anyway) of confronting anybody about it or really acting on it apart from my intention to heal and working on it in therapy. But I really want to avoid my parents as I am so uncomfortable with them. I have always been uncomfortable and avoided to a certain degree anyway. But now it feels worse. I guess I want to avoid them without making it obvious because with don't want them asking any questions. I certainly don't want it to come out. On the other hand I do have a 5 year old niece I would like to protect if necessary. But I couldn't even do that unless I'm certain. Thanks so much for taking the time to reply. I appreciate it.