In my case I write in a note book and if I say ok you guys it's time to free write then everyone wants their chance to speak. However since I started T again they will talk to me. I can't just say I want to talk to Ugene, probably not going to happen. They will talk only if they feel SAFE. However my main Alter (Lacy) who is (Boss) we can talk anytime. Just have to ask . Everyone is different though. I just know writing can bring out the ones who would rather just hide. Good luck to you.