The therapist prior to my current one told me she cared, but didn't want to make it personal. I told this to my current therapist and when I finished, we both said at the same time, "So why even bother saying it?"

I don't know if the previous one was trying to discourage anything, but whatever it was, she succeeded in leaving me feeling confused and chilled. Honestly tho, there was no reason to even say it.