I'm sure you don't want to hear it, but I'm going to say it. Finding a man isn't the most important thing in life. I've experienced that the more desperate you are to attract someone, the crazier/creepier the guys you attract. It's hard to be alone sometimes, but I really encourage you not to make having a boyfriend the be all end all for your life. Try to enjoy life and yourself. You'll be surprised what happens when you aren't looking.