OCD can have many different variants...I guess the first question I have...is this something you can accept about him for the rest of your life? I would not expect it to change...cause you can't force help on someone...

If you can't see yourself living like this...probably a good time to move back out...

If you can see yourself living with this and accepting and loving this man...I think you will find a lot of ways you can cope with it...