No matter what, find time to enjoy life. Im not pushing you spend money but that's the way to enjoy life. Make friends. Talk to each other. Make your life active like after work do this do that. Go to the bar and stuff. Adventure and stuff. Find what you love then concentrate on it. If you love outdoors, why not. But outdoor stuff and drive to the mountains and enjoy the view. Drink a couple of beers and then have fun.