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Old Jun 26, 2015, 02:16 AM
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Originally Posted by llleeelllaaannneee View Post
I think it's really awesome you had a positive experience with this job. Sorry you're leaving when it's going so well.

Maybe work isn't the place to push yourself? Maybe now that you know you can handle and even enjoy something more socially demanding you can do some other things you've avoided? Idk, I know little about your situation but does sound like you got some valuable information/insight from taking the chance. With more money and less commute other options could be available for you to explore where you're income isn't dependent on avoidant traits not being overwhelming...
Very well said.
It's marvellous, Break that you showed yourself that you can cope with things you didn't believe you can do.
Said that, I'm agree that the less anxiety you have in your job, the better so I encourage you to come back your old job. You won't have to deal so much with customers and you already know all the advantages.
I know you can get some progress in your free-time.
See my thread about sense of belonging.
I know that for an avoidant is very hard to feel sense of belonging, I never had this feeling appart from an online forum. But, I always craved for this feeling and I will never give it up until I get it.
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