Nobody is perfect, not even you.

The way I see it, you can either try and distract yourself and work on letting it go, without discussing her imperfections, or prepare yourself for a lifetime of fixating and discussing other people's perceived flaws.

Personally? I don't see the latter leading to a healthy and happy life.

Also, if the tables were turned, would you be fine with every partner pointing out what they perceive to be your flaws?

Just something to ponder