I think there is only one area that I "depend" on my therapist and that ishaving her as the only outlet to talk about my csa. She's the only perso in my life that I've told. I've made it very clear that I'm unwilling to tell anyone else. She is very patient with that but when the topic does come up she gently encourages me to think about talking to my husband about this topic. Someday maybe, but until then she is willing to give me that safe space of therapy to depend on her for this topic. Actually she's taking a break for a few months and actively looking for short term coverage and knows and respects that I'm very conflicted about whether I am even willing to let the new theraoist in on my secret.