I am 68 and been alone for 14 years; hate being alone, but am working full timeand going to school. If we engage in life......stay busy etc., sooner or later we will meet someone who interests us....volunteer, join a group, etc.there are no guarantees in life, but we need to find a way to be happy.

Fear will keep you stuck and prevent you from doing positive things. Hope you wil make an appointment with a therapist. It is scary,but the best work you will ever do.