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Old Jun 26, 2015, 08:08 AM
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Originally Posted by ForevahAlone View Post
I apologize for the knee-jerk, rude response. It is just soooo frustrating because everyone in my life trivializes my feelings about this. I just want to love someone and be loved. That's it.
I do understand how it seems like when expressing your desire, it gets trivialized. Probably from those that have already been in long term relationships, I guess??
That whole grass isn't always greener cliche comes to my mind. To experience love and loving can also come with great pain and responsibilities, almost like having a baby/child and many times like having a teenager.
Much advice does come with a backdrop of why waste your youth/life pining for something that isn't always magical?
Thanks for this!
ForevahAlone, llleeelllaaannneee