My ex had a headache a lot, or new sex moves that he had mysteriously learnt, or he wanted to make love from behind, with no kisses or caresses. All said, I love to make love. I don't think I have really good moves, but I like the intimacy of touching massaging, caressing, laughing, and telling fantasies. I was hesitating but then recently had a fun night with a dear friend. He has been helping me sort out my emotions that get entangled with my upcoming divorce. My friend was an expert at making love - it was like a wonderful interesting sporting event. If we try again, I would like to show him how to make me come and I would like to ravish him with some games and lots of eye contact. It seems like there are a lot of levels in making love, kind of like different conversations and combinations of mind body and heart. I think the most fun with my body starts with me.