I went through something very very similar with my husband who is now my ex. He went to therapy twice and then told me he didnt love me like a wife anymore and only loved me like a best friend (wish he had even treated me as a best friend). Right there I stopped the couples therapy and said we were done...part of me wonders what would have happened if we had continued therapy since it brought up some very valid points.

I would keep at him about the marriage counseling. Have you also considered if he is suffering from depression? My hubby was but didnt get help till after we split. Feel free to pm me hun, there is more to my story as well which is too painful to admit which I would share in pm.

Big Hugs!!!! I know exactly how you are feeling and you are not worthless and unlovable. He is the one missing boat on a terrific lady.