Today is day 5 of the silent treatment from my husband, I have been getting support by coming on this forum. Just to get it out is a big help. The way he acts embarrasses me though. Anyway I have been enjoying not having to wait on him hand and foot and being able to do my art and things I enjoy. This morning I noticed he is not as rude as he usually is. This sounds pathetic I know, but usually when he gets up or comes to bed late and if I am still sleeping he will turn on the bright overhead light for himself not caring whether he wakes me or not, which I never do to him, it has a dimmer and I always keep it low so as not to wake him. Anyway he didn't do it this morning he actually was polite and had it on low. he also will come in the bedroom and just change the channel from what I am watching, he didn't do that either last night, just watched the show I was watching even though I know he hates it. Whats this angle, anyone know. I am thinking that maybe its because of the advise I am getting on here, I am just enjoying doing my own thing. Maybe that's getting to him I don't know. But I feel a little more empowered. Even though this silent treatment is bothering me, he isn't seeing it. I do not email him, text him, or anything, which I usually end up doing. Not going to this time.
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