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Old Jun 26, 2015, 11:34 AM
jean17 jean17 is offline
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Originally Posted by dancinglady View Post
So I have tried to date men that seem to be normal on the outside. Have had no success over the years. How many here have dated and married men who don't have mental illnesses? I just wanted to do a count. Maybe I should only date men with mental illnesses? I think the normal guys don't want the burdens that come with women with MI esp. BPD.
My experience is that the only men who are interested in me have serious problems themselves. This has caused me so much grief, pain & heartache. "Normal, healthy men" seem to sense that I have problems and steer clear of me.

Two thoughts: Only I, or others like me, will accept guys that everyone else knows are nothing but trouble. And my troubles are much more obvious than I think they are.