Well Happy Birthday to you Sunday!

It sounds like dealing with your divorced parents is a tug-of-war sometimes and at times like birthdays it sounds complicated. I'm sorry it is like this for you. (( hugs ))

Where I used to work we celebrated birthdays by having a cake for the birthday person. Once, the birthday person wasn't too appreciative (cake was not her favorite flavor) so we decided from then on that the birthday person would bring something to share on their birthday! It worked great and was fun to share something of ourselves with the others on our birthday. I thought of that because I was wondering.... what if you made a cake/food/snacks and invited your family to come? If they can't be together at the same time, you could work it out or they could work it out to be there separately. What do you think?



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