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Originally Posted by ruh roh
In addition to attachment, some people question if the fallout is part of a pattern in their lives and is being acted out in therapy, so they stay to find out. Sometimes, it's worth doing. When the therapist is really awful, though, the person is stuck— like in an abusive relationship — and vulnerable. I really feel for anyone who gets caught in that dynamic.
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We never had a "rupture" or anything in 5 yrs until everything fell apart this spring. I had to admit that the relationship had felt unhealthy for a long time. And this, what you said above, I was vulnerable and raw. It's so hard.