hello d1023, It is hard having your children go off into the world. Bittersweet in fact! You are grateful and happy for them yet can miss them so much!. I have 2 in university and one still at home. I have been married 25 years and for awhile we lost sight of each other. I often tell him in jest you better be nice to me because before you know it, it will be just us. It may be fun to rekindle your marriage and become friends again. Happiness is good for body and soul! Good luck!