You could still tell her about the romantic feelings. She may or may not be capable of working through those feelings but it is worth a try because you already work so well with her.

I am in a similar dilemma with my CBT T. I have feelings for him, some just attraction in general, some sexual, and oddly he can feel paternal to me too--thankfully not all those at the same time. I only admitted feeling jealous of his daughter so far. Even that, he seemed a bit taken aback/shocked. I thought he already knew.

Imagine if I admitted the other stuff! I am wondering if he could handle it. In my heart I know it would be best for my treatment to lay it all on the table.