to add further info, a dr friend told me that falling in love released dopamine in the brain the chemical involved in schizophrenia, i'm 51 have fell in love in my life 4 times, i look back and say my thinking was clouded and i said and did some strange things while i was in love. i'm convinced it's natures way of making us reproduce, i'm now very careful and a little cynical if i find myself being very attracted to someone--boring i know ,but that's where i am at the moment