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Originally Posted by Rose76
In that case, you may have to avoid social settings for a while. Heartaches do heal over time. Don't build this up in your mind to be the heartache that you can never recover from. No way is this guy worth that.
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I know for sure that this guy is no worth of a minute of my time anymore. I gave him many chances....He barked on me and left me then he came back and said sorry, bought me flowers and I let him in to my life. He was good for a very short period of time and then starts all over again.
I couldn't ask for anything, he stayed at my home for free and brought his kids over and he fought with me over TV even or my own bed. He told me many times, when I will be out of home then he and his kids are more comfortable at my home!
He complained that he's not comfortable at my sofa and he doesn't have freedom at my home! I was thinking what the heck, get your own place. He said he will never get his own place to make my life easier. He's living with his old crazy mother now. (his mother is another story!)
He said he wants to rent or buy a home with me and then if I complain about anything (mostly cleaning) he will tell me "**** you, it's my home too!".
I can go on and on with all these things. They are many of them. I hide it from people. I didn't tell them. I don't know what I was thinking really.
Now, he found me in my weakest position and he knew he can leave me without being worry if I date somebody or find new friends. He knows that I'm stuck with this broken foot!
It's just terrible. I can't even go to gym. At this time, I need physical activities the most and I can't do anything.
No, I'm not planning to go to the birthday. It's in a restaurant, very nice restaurant and I make fool of myself to go with a heavy medical boot on my foot and crutches. I feel already that girl is more towards him not me.
bottom line, I still don't believe he's bad. I don't understand what happened to that sweet, kind man I started dating 2.5 years ago?