This is even embarrassing to write. As I keep these things confidential in real life due to the humiliation it would cause my partner and myself, I'd really like some input/advice on here.
My partner has a drinking problem. For the past year or so he's been confusing the bathroom for other places in the middle of the night and urinating in the kitchen, in cupboards, on walls, etc. I understand that this is quite a common experience for alcoholics. HOWEVER, last night not only did he urinate in the kitchen after coming home stupiwdly drunk, he also sh**. I wish I could tell you I was joking. This morning he overslept for work and when I woke him up I bought it up he seemed nonplussed. He was more concerned about being late. I'm seriously fed up with this behaviour. Surely this would be a wake-up call? How do I broach the subject with him at home without losing my cool? I'm so angry I don't even want to go home. Our place smelled absolutely rank this morning. Anybody gone through this? I'm so angry and sad.