
Jun 26, 2015, 05:38 PM
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Member Since: Jan 2013
Location: in my own little world
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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight
I find it helps to write on here, too. I can talk to my H about lots of things, but with friends, I just feel weirder. I do have a good friend that I share some therapy stuff with, but even with her, at this point, I feel strange being like, Yeah, the whole transference thing is bothering me again. Because she'd likely say, as she did recently, that maybe I should just stop therapy if it's causing me this much distress. But I know then I'd only be running away...
Therapy feels almost like an alternate universe sometimes. And I'm glad I found this group because I can talk about it and not feel weird that, just this week, I saw my T, my MC, and my p-doc, so over 2 hours worth of therapy. And that I'm having transference issues with two of them, one being especially intense. That's just something difficult to explain to someone who hasn't been through it, or at least hasn't had a close therapeutic relationship.
So, coming back around to the main post, TWO, talk to us on here!
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I think sometimes it's hard even talking to people in T. My wife has her own T, but she doesn't think leaving a T should ever be so hard... I know she understood the e. transference piece b/c she experienced it, but she doesn't get this parental stuff. I'm really glad I found pc also...
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