I don't know if these are boundaries or not. T and i don't hug and don't shake hands. But I have no need for that either. I don't know if it is a boundary. If she started hugging me I'd be very puzzled, and I am very touchy feely. I just have no need with her. I think you can only call it boundary if I wanted to hug and she didn't?
She gave me her cell phone number and said you can call any time. I only call for scheduling but I guess I could for other reasons. If I started to call too much maybe she's tighten the boundaries. Don't know. I generally hate talking on the phone. I doubt I'd ever call for anything. If I am in crisis I would ask for emergency session which I did twice and she found time for me right away. I had to take off work but I was going to anyways as no way I would work in crisis ( I work with kids).
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