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Old Jun 27, 2015, 03:59 AM
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Ah, the "secure base".

Good therapy is supposed to foster an attachment style that makes the patient feel safe enough to explore new behaviors/try new things but allowing the patient to seek reassurance/care from the T when things go wrong/get scary. When soothed, one can be adventuresome again. Sorry Dr. Bowlby or Winnicot, that's my best.
Thanks for this!
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