I might be clueless but why would one willingly seek transference? I am not sure. Why? I understand issues that hunt us since childhood and cause us problems. My dad is the reason I end up with wrong men because I subconsciously seek men who are just like him.

I am working on it in therapy. But I don't seen why I would deliberately seek a therapist who I would feel the way I feel about my dad? Overall my seeking wrong men is unhealthy and is something I want to stop ( am doing better with help of my t).

But I just don't see how and why having a t who is just like my dad would do me any good? It would just perpetuate the same nonsense I struggle my whole life. I in fact do not want male t for that sand reason.

Do you know why you actually want maternal transference and if yes why? How do you know it's good for you?

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