First ** english is not my mother tongue **

Second**doing phone and in person session Integrative/Feminist Counselling since 4 years**

Phone counseling from time to time due to distance.

I was wondering if someone could give me a different perspective in how I feel I was treated. My Therapist (female/lesbian) and me (female/lesbian) talk to each other over 4 years, there were ups and downs but always managed to connect again. This time after the session I feel this connection is broken or ruptured. What happened?

- I rang up and different person answered the phone, it was the agreed time...this happened a few time now and I was asking who it was (e.g her partner ...her sister ??)

Her answer: I always want to bend boundaries ??

I feel she is getting extra careful , extra tide and someone paranoid in protecting her boundaries. e.g: I am not saying where I go on vacation and so on.

I was so pissed off, angry and felt violated somehow.

Is it me ?? or her problem??

<Anything would be helpful, as I really feel upset