I have never discussed boundaries with my T. Or any other T. I don't think I've ever crossed one. I know I can email her when I want and I always get a response back though not always immediately. She has a cell Phone for work that I'm allowed to call, but it's only on during certain (work) hours. But I've never called her (unless it's about an appointment) and I don't email her often because I don't want to bother her too much.
I'm interested in what her boundaries are. I want to ask her about it, but I'm a bit scared to do that. I'm always scared to ask questions.
Ever since I started therapy at 16 years old, I kind of create a distance between the T and me. I'm afraid to do something wrong or get rejected, so I don't even try or ask certain things. But maybe T's boundaries are more felxible then I think, but does T think that I have boundaries (like that I don't want a hug) by how I act.
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