Although that's an interesting observation PeterSO, and accurate for some, I wanted to note that it doesn't describe my and some others' situations. That description was actually the opposite to my childhood experience, but I agree with your interpretation of the reasons behind these types of dreams. When I cried past the age of 3, I was scolded and sometimes punished. I was far too scared of my parents to ever throw a tantrum. I grew up in a chaotic environment with much anger and lack of control. And I also have vivid memories of being generally ignored or forgotten much of the time. I guess on the bright side, ignoring the reasons, I was complimented for how well behaved I was as a child. Maybe the fact that I and some others experienced a greater lack of support then the norm is what can cause these dreams as well.