When I have to look after an abusive relative, I can feel resentful later on that day; but it makes me feel worse, so I try to balance it by telling myself I want to be the opposite of the way that person behaved.

Mostly, though, the past makes me feel sad and empty.

I don't agree that it's a birthright to be born into a loving, respectful home, not when I consider the horrors of children living in war zones, or the girls and women who are ***ed on the regular, or even in this country where 25% of children live in poverty and a growing number have parents in jail. But, I would agree that it would be wonderful to have that for every child.

I guess I'm at a point now where I appreciate every kindness, whether it's through a neighbor, co-worker, a cashier, or my therapist.