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Originally Posted by A Red Panda
I'm just trying to give you a different perspective. Continuing to try to have contact with someone who gives zero indication of wanting any can be seen as harassment and as as a precursor to stalking.
It doesn't mean that you are a bad person. But you are upsetting her family, and likely her, and it could start to make them worried/scared.
It isn't very common for someone to be still trying to make contact two years on, can't you see how that could be distressing even if it isn't frequent?
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Yes, I can see that could be true. I suppose I had a similar experience with some I had been seeing for a few weeks. I decided that I needed to leave the relationship. I explained this to her and there was no love between us. She kept calling me for weeks. I ignored her. She finally gave up and I admit I was relieved.
In my desperation to reach my ex I realize I have made many fatal mistakes that I regret. I realize now that I have to close this tragic chapter in my life without any closure from her.
Thanks for your words, maybe now I will actually hear them.
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