Nikki thank you so much for sharing your personal experience with your therapist. It really helps to know that you are not alone in your feelings. Your insight and suggestions made me feel more "normal" in my attachment. I will take into consideration talking about this with my therapist as issues of attachment and abandonment are part of the problems I am working on to start with. I just have not shared my feelings about my relationship with my therapist. I see him next monday and I will try to talk to him about this. I've wanted to for a while.