Sister...thats what you said was so beautiful. I never call my T. We've been working together for almost 3 years and in all that time I think I have called 2-3 times. Of couse there are times when I feel like I want to call him if I am having a really bad time but I try not to bother him in his personal time. I know I can call if it is urgent, but I've found that if I hold off on the impulse then I am usually able to get through the situation without calling. Of course he has told me that it is OK to call if I really need to talk to him but I try not to.