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Originally Posted by AllHeart
Sending you hugs and support!!
Have you asked your T to help you understand the reasons for the changes? Even if by email, I would ask. You deserve an answer. I'd even go so far as to ask what other changes she has in store for you. I also hate the power that some T's have over clients. I just don't understand how T's don't understand how their actions can be so damaging to already fragile clients. I am so sorry for what you are going through.
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This I agree with. I also think consistency is key. If my t is not rigidly consistent I would not be able to continue therapy for a second. I need to know what I can expect. And if she would take something away after given (like hugs or out of session contact)......I would not be able to handle that. I feel t's need to be careful with their boundaries and not do something that they can't see through.