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Old Jun 27, 2015, 09:54 PM
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Originally Posted by ethanbridges View Post
I second CapedCrusader's reply.

Interact with others. It doesn't matter if it's only one person. Just connect. It's cliche, but that's life!

To answer your question, though, here are some of my suggestions:

- Look for a local group of mountain climbers and climb the highest mountain in your place or proximity
- Do some water rafting too
- Go to a peaceful paradise (I'm a beach person)
- Get into a relationship
- Work hard on something you love

Yup, they all need somebody else who you need to interact with.

The way I see all this is: Do whatever you want to do while you're still young. Doesn't matter how you do it (like you may borrow some money just to not miss the perfect opportunity); just find a way and do it. I believe creating nice memories in your "youth" has an effect on your future goal-setting. You better see it as early as now, at this stage of your life. Sometimes, the thing you've done only once is the best.

You may be an introvert (from how you described your routine) but it may not hurt to share your experiences with other people. Sure, you may not really want the interaction at all; but just give it a try.
Whats strange is I type as ENFP all the time. They say we are the most introverted of the Extroverts. I am kinda stranger as I get older. I ignore people who try to talk to me at work. I zone out, tune out. I run away. I avoid. I wish peopl would shut up. I wish the conversation was over etc. I am becoming very introverted. this is not me. I used to love to be around people... people people people! Its changed now.

I love your suggestions but I dont have the people to enjoy it with. Due to the above problem I dont actually make friends anymore. I also feel like the people around me are alien... who could I possibly connect with? I dont even give them a chance. A terrible list of turn offs, and just one will shut you out.

I am however on here now. Its always nicer like this. I feel like I'm "getting out there" and I haven't left my room.