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Originally Posted by orangebish
The things you are talking about... Touching you without even asking if you're OK with that? Now that is ****ing wrong. Your T's boundaries are all over the place, and I would even say that her behavior is inappropriate. She's either inexperienced or doesn't know how to handle countertransference.
Did you talk to her about your feelings and fears? You can try to work through it.
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When she touched my knee (2011), she asked what was wrong. That wasn't really a big deal. She was very concerned at that time because I just got out of the hospital... she never did that before.
Then no touching until years later when we started to hug, but I started that. Like I asked. And she then later asked if it was still okay. I said yes. That was all me.
And then she came over and just held my hand that one time recently ago because I was sobbing... I didn't mind at all. and she has never done anything wrong at all... I think I typed something wrong or whatever because I started the hugs/touching in the first place. And I wanted her to hold my hand. If I said no to her holding my hand, she would of stopped... Other than that all we do is hug at end or sessions... I think you must of read one of my dreams or something... Or I miscommunicated or whatever.. I don't think I said that...it's really just a me problem. Unless I miscommunicated when I typed I don't know. Sorry!!! I probably miscommunicated typing this. I swear, she is the best T ever. I have others to compare her too from the past. She is very professional. What part are you specifically talking about that was bad???
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